i really like you!

hellow bloggy!

some days life surprises you in ways you never ever expect it to..sometimes when you expect brickbats for an action of yours and you end up getting appreciation for it you just cannot stop smiling to your ownself!..something like that happened to me today...

being from a typical indian family where a girl crossing 25 and not getting married is a big question i am most of the time bombarded by my family and relatives with profiles of eligible bachelors ..well nothing special about that ..(there is always an option to reject !)..i mean so far i never got serious about this stuff and kept on dillydallying the whole process...still when it became a daily ritual i created a ruckus at home...clearly stated my wish to have some time finding my ownself before saying "i do"...finally they had to bend down to me...

now what does a normal girl get after doing such things....well to my surprise my mom called me today and said something she has never said to me in my whole life and that was "i really like you!"..and i was like "mom why??"...and she said" i like the fact that you can do things you want to do the way you want to...you are not scared of uncertainities in life...you have the courage to say no when you really want to say no without giving it a second thought...you are independent in the true sense...you have your preferences and you have the guts to stick to them no matter what i or your dad says...you have friends whom we may disapprove of but that does nt deter you from having them in your life..you are confident of your choices...be like this always!"

and i could only feel my eyes wet...all through my life i have may be annoyed my mom dad by my weird decisions ..by my choices ..but at the end of the day when they say that they really like me for what i am i cannot help but feel proud of my self..!!!

PS: i love you mom dad!