heyy blogmaster!
did you know ek ladka aur ek ladki kabhi dost nahi reh sakte...???..ha ha !!..well u missed the classic block buster "maine pyar kiya" if you dont know this universal truth that applies solely to our conventional indian mindset...
many times i have wondered as to what might have led to the genesis of this statement..why do people presume that plain platonic friendship can never exist betwen two members of opposite gender..?
well a simple fact is that when you are friends with someone and you spend a considerable time with that person you start knowing the intricate details of that person..you become familiar with his/her fears..dreams...imaginations...habits..etc etc..you come to know the other person's annoying habits like chewing nails in anger...or the ability to make you laugh when you are seriously pissed off...you come to know or rather even predict the other person's statements ...now this overfamiliarity either puts you off the person or it draws you closer to him /her..draws you closer in the sense you accept their flaws without judging them...you are with them for what they are and not for what you want them to become....
love according to me is about being comfortable in the company of that person...if you can be your own natural idiotic bantering irritating self nothing better than that!
falling for someone without knowing them happens only in films...where you get tongue tied in front of the other person yet you fall in love with him/her...in real life love is never one sided.....what is one sided is always infatuation...if its love you will feel comfortable enough to voice what you feel...
that is where the comfort of a friendship comes along...mark me masking romantic inclination in the name of friendship never works...there has to be a clarity in both the relations only then can there be a gradual progression ...
a relationship solely based on romantic inclination may survive in the long run but a relationship where romance follows a long friendship is sure to last a life time:)
PS: should change the blog name to "Loveguru help service"!:)
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